Tuesday, September 18, 2012

A ride on the elevator through the lens of a toddler


The Elevator is a rectangular shaped box consisting of rails and automatic door/doors that is used to transport people and just about everything else from floor to floor in a building.  Movement is up and down following the commands of the call button and floor buttons.  The features in an elevator are quite robotic because there are lights, buttons, speaker holes, vents and surveillance cameras.  There is the emergency button which is usually red in color that is used in an emergency.  The other lighted buttons are the floor buttons that is pressed upon entering the elevator to designate each stop it has to make.  Then there are the speakers that allow communication between the passengers and emergency contact crew in case of an emergency.  The coolest robotic machine man has ever made.

In most elevators, there is quiet air while in others the vent is so vocal that it almost shares the same sound as an aircraft engine.  The surveillance cameras are quite visible too with a flashing red light while others are concealed behind mirrors and the crevices of the roof of the elevator.   Elevators are usually located in the center of a building and seemingly too close to the stairwell.  It knows how to speed past the unwanted stops and when to slowly get to a stop on selected floors.  The Elevators are usually present in a 2-story building and buildings with more than 100 floors.  The surface area of an elevator is very similar to a small room or closet space, however, the size varies depending on the building infrastructures and needs.

 There is always a weight limit posted inside the elevator and if it is ignored then the elevator refuses to move.  Then there are also little signs and objects engraved into the walls of the elevator: most popularly a danger sign, firefighter hat and flames.  Some elevators talks, saying things like stand clear of the closing doors, naming the floors as it approaches, while others make beeping sounds while it moves from one level to another.  The elevator makes it easier and faster to get from one floor to the next and is extremely a necessity in buildings that taking the stairway is almost impossible.  There is also great consideration for people who are physically and medically challenged because they are not capable to climb the stairs.  But most importantly, elevators are luxurious amenities for parents with young children.

Of all the passengers that may ride in an elevator, children are the most fascinating and uniquely intricate occupants.  The elevator is like a spectacular machine with super powers to function so mysteriously in the eyes of children.  There is always that great anticipation to hop on board and revel in that few moments that an elevator ride will last.  Have you ever had the opportunity to see the excitement that fills the eyes of children when they enter a building that has elevators? 

It is almost like giving them their favorite candy or ice cream.  Upon seeing the elevator doors, their faces light up and the feelings of joy rushing through their bodies send them jumping and prancing everywhere; in most instances they will yell, “Can we ride in the elevator?”  For the frequent riders who actually know where the elevator is located, they will break free from their parent or guardian, heading in the direction of the elevator.  Then it appears as if they have found their lost toy when they see that call button.  They eagerly run over to press that amazing button that not only lights up magically but also miraculously open the door/doors to the elevator.

 From an adult perspective, this is never the case because we tend to see the elevator as an amenity of convenience.  Who really would want to walk up the stairs when you can stand in a box and being transported to your designated floor in a blink of an eye?  Some of us do not have any positive feelings towards the elevator because it is seen as a cramped space that is just outright uncomfortable.  We become more protective of belongings and ourselves that we sometimes hang on to them displaying nothing but fear while riding the elevator.  For others it is just a confined space that is intimate and enclosed.

However, for children, the elevator is like an adventure ride almost similar to the ones at an amusement park.  They will wait impatiently by the door after pressing the call button and when the doors finally open, they rush in almost forgetting that they are in the company of other passengers.  There is never a still moment when riding the elevator with young children.  Whether they are in the restraint of a stroller or independently holding their positions, they have always managed to keep busy. 

There is no doubt that you will encounter a child that will select all the floors and force the elevator to make every stop on each floor.  Since children have no sense of time, they are just enjoying the ride and amazed by the doors because they can open by themselves.  It is likely that others are exhilarated by the beeping sounds and vocals of the elevator.  Whatever the case it was fascinating to observe a little boy who was accompanied by a lady who appeared to be his mother.  They were the last ones to enter the elevator on the way up.

 The mother appeared to be Caucasian in her late 30’s, wearing a well suited outfit with leathered high heels. The little boy is probably between the ages of 3-5 years old.  He was wearing a coat, jeans, and T shirt and spider man sneakers.  While waiting for the elevator, he seemed a bit impatient which made him display a fidgety behavior.  He was also carrying an action figure toy in his hand that he simulated to be performing some aeronautics tricks with matching sounds.  It somewhat gave a sense that he would be an interesting passenger and he definitely was. 

Upon entering, he discreetly moved to the left of the elevator away from his mother who stood to the right.  He went directly where the buttons were while his mother ordered him to press the number three.  That came at no great surprise because he appeared to be an intelligent boy.  However he ensured that all four buttons were pressed and lighted up.  The doctor’s offices were located on the third floor and of course the elevator stopped, doors opened and closed on all four floors.  On this trip we had a young elevator operator who endured the doors closed after each stop by pressing the close buttons.

Astonishingly, his mother became impatient when she started sighing and looking at her watch.  She became infuriated on the second stop when she realized that no one got off.  She continued by expressing her disgust of the elevator for stopping on every level with no one getting off or coming onboard.  It appeared that they were late for their doctor’s appointment.  Another passenger looked over in my direction and we exchanged a smile.  One can only imagine what her reactions would have been if she knew that it was her son that had done this.  While entering the third floor, the mother accidentally brushed up against my shoulders while she positioned herself to get off.  As the elevator doors opened, she walked right out without acknowledging what had happened or even displaying any signs of being apologetic.

Another child will be in constant motion moving about all four corners of the elevator car while it is in motion.  You will only be interrupted by feeling the tiny, little bodies pushing up against your legs, trampling your feet or sometimes holding onto your leg while trying to make his/her way around the surface area of the car.  There was a little girl with such a tiny frame that when she spoke it almost imitated the sound of a squeal.  Her grandmother, who announced that she was 2 years old after two passengers had asked about her age, accompanied her.  Her accent appeared to be one from the Caribbean Islands, more distinctively Jamaica. 

Everyone seemed so fascinating by the little girl’s presence because she literally went around the entire elevator saying ‘Hi’ to all eight adults in her squeaky, high-pitched voice.  Besides her hot pink raincoat that she was wearing, she also had a tiny backpack with a tiny box of raisins inside it that she offered to share with everyone. Seven people refused including me except for an elderly, black lady who thanked her for being so kind.  The lady was so engaged with the little girl that both of them conversed for the entire ride.  According to the lady, we have to teach them how to share and the most effective way is to participate.  She couldn’t have said it better; very effective statement and point she has made in my opinion. 

On this trip, everyone had a smile on their faces and was actively in tune with this sociable 2 year old enjoying her moment on her elevator ride.  As the elevator approached the third floor, her grandmother wished everyone had an enjoyable day.  Once they exited the elevator, the little girl waved goodbye. It appeared as if I have shared a great fascination with this child because this trip in the elevator was the most enjoyable that I had gotten off on the third floor as well.

Then there are the children in the confined space of their stroller.  They usually keep their parents or guardians so busy for the entire ride: dropping all the contents of the stroller onto the floor including their Sippy cups and pacifier.  The expectation of using a stroller is usually to carry very young children that would be too much of a burden to carry around or physically incapable to walk well.  This little girl was not as sociable nor was she the typical toddler.  She seemed to be older than 1 year old. 

One can guess her age based on these assumptions: she did not utter a word, noncompliant with her guardian’s commands and she was unreceptive as a younger child would be.  The assumptions might be incorrect but for the most part close observations and experience will allow anyone to believe that she is a much younger child.  The baby kept emptying the contents of the stroller while her female guardian was so busy on her cell phone that she did not notice anything that was happening.  When she finally realized, the child was taking a shot at the last item, which is her pacifier and flung it on the floor.

Finally, she gave the child much needed attention and resort to retrieving the items on the floor.  She seemed a bit unhappy because she was swift in her movements and speaking in a high pitched voice in a foreign language.  Based on her clothing and accent she appeared to be of African descent.  She wore a lengthy, multi colored fabric that is wrapped around her body with a matching piece covering her head.  They got off on the third floor in such silence.

On the other hand, there are children that are more terrified rather than excited by the ride in an elevator or is it the space?  There was a woman with a young boy who appeared to be between the ages of 6 and 8 years old.  Despite how chilly the day was, he wore nothing but blue jeans with a light blue T shirt.  He displayed behaviors of a mentally retarded individual because he was very vocal and his posture was in a crunched position with his arm folded while he shakes frantically making weird sounds.  I was a bit hesitant to ride with them because he was a bit loud.

When the elevator doors opened, no one else got on except for them and me.   I became relieved when his mother or guardian securely held onto him.  She hugged him and kept rubbing his back while she whispered inaudible words into his ears.  His noise was a bit scary and uncomfortable because they sounded more like screams.  Instantly, the assumptions flowed but what if this child was ill and suffering great pain?  What if he was cold because he refused to wear his coat?  They too were going on the third floor. 

The boy entered the elevator and proceeded to sit in the right corner of the elevator towards the back.  I instinctively stepped over to the other side which was to the left of them.  While he was sitting, there is a constant rocking back and forth movement while he hummed.  In less than two minutes we arrived on the third floor.  His mother took her position to uproot him from the floor but he resisted.  When the doors opened, he got up and started making those strange noises again.  Before the doors closed I could hear his mother threatening him to stop making the noise in an angry voice.

At that moment it struck me that I was right indeed.  He might have been suffering from some illness unknown to me but my judgments prevailed.  This modeled behavior is in perfect alignment with others because there were three more people waiting to go on the elevator but they have decided to wait.  They allowed us to get in and their reactions were as if the elevator was overcrowded.  Without an open line of communication, we make assumptions and judge others, not fully understanding the truth or close to the truth. 

On the other hand, children are much different.  They are highly expressive, honest, open and uninhibited individuals.  Take for example the sociable two year old girl, she extended a sincere Hi to everyone and resorted to sharing her raisins to strangers.  With her little, innocent, thoughtful gestures, all eight people looked in amazement and awe.  Instead of one of those moments where the next person would be invisible to the other or everyone staring at the roof or the floor for the entire ride, everyone was engaged in at varying levels.

Four children from four different ethnic backgrounds displayed one thing in common: the joy of riding in an elevator without any inhibitions of space.  With their great appreciation and excitement comes a unique interaction that brings adult occupants together in a meeting of the mind even if it is for a brief moment.  The presence of a child encourages an interaction that would have been different.   It is somewhat strange because adults consider themselves highly intelligent people with effective communicative abilities.  However weird it may seem the elevator is a spatial component that provides exposure to the unique behaviors of people versus that of children.

The Caucasian lady displayed an arrogant behavior by ignoring a situation that would be addressed in some apologetic gesture.  The African lady was unsociable in that she engaged in her telephone conversation withdrawing all her attention from everyone including the baby.  As for the last lady with the vocal little boy, she was displayed a curbed sense of behavior.  Despite the fact that she didn’t speak to anyone but her son, I believe that she is aware of people’s reaction towards her son.  She seemed a bit considerate of others when she tried to get the little boy to remain calm and quiet.

On the other hand, all four children were comfortable in their space.  It is also evident that the children modeled the behaviors of their adult counterpart to a certain extent.  Take for example the Jamaican grandma, she was very sociable and so was her granddaughter.  The Caucasian lady is very rude and inconsiderate and so may influence the behaviors of her son.  The African lady remained non vocal and so was the baby.  There are some levels of communicative rules that exist among us which are very unique and intricate.  As strange and interesting as it maybe, I would choose to ride the elevator all day with young children.  They are more sociable creatures intrigued by the experience of riding the elevator as oppose to adults who just ‘use’ the space.  Adult’s presence is not fun!

 

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